The Taboo Phrase: Being Submissive

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So often people confuse the phrase, “being submissive.” It is usually thought of as a woman always on her knees following her man’s commands. However, it really boils down to using common sense. Remember, when your parents told you to obey your elders. Well, they also talked to you about strangers and how not to […]

New Age Femininity

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I bet when you think of femininity you think of a woman in a dress and makeup 24/7 and behaving as if it’s 1950. Well, that is not so. Woman have fought so hard for so long to have equal rights as men that many times we forget to embrace the fact that it is […]

God Validates

Only God can validate you.

How To Attract Your Future Husband

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We all hope to check off the boxes that determines we’ve found our husband. It is so easy to assume the best mate is the tall, good-looking money maker, but what else is on that checklist? We are what we attract. If you want to attract a husband who is good-looking, ambitious, fun, loving, giving, […]

1 Simple away to Empower Yourself On Your Way to Your Desire

Hello! I hope you guys are having a wonderful day today!  Today I want to talk about one super simple way to empower yourself on your way to your desire. Sometimes it can be frustrating to be far away from your goal. If you’re 50 pounds away or thousands of dollars away or multiple medical […]

Can You Forgive God?

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My sisters and brothers It’s time to forgive God.

Why men have side chicks

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The bar is so low for men with dating women that we as women must get our standards back up. Everyone’s standards may look different, but at least have some and be uncompromising with having your needs met. If it doesn’t feel right, leave it alone. If it makes little sense, don’t force it to, just let it go.

You Are NOT Behind in Life (Pep Talk)

*Deep Breath* …You are NOT behind in life!!!  I keep seeing people posting things about not being where they need to be in life. I’m tired of the society factory telling people that they are “behind” or “not enough” or you have great potential but something is just missing in you.  Social media makes it […]

How To Out-Love Your Spouse

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I remember complaining to myself about all of my husband’s flaws and then realized that I needed to worry about me and how I could be a better wife. I spent weeks changing my attitude and doing all that I could do and ended up getting my husband’s attention. He didn’t know why I was […]

Redirection

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Often times we speak of wanting better for ourselves.  However, many of us don’t do what is necessary to make “better” a reality. We still participate in the same activities, entertain the same drama, and refuse to let go of relationships that are no longer serving us, due to routine and complacency. There is a […]