- Where are you? You have to begin within. You have to know where you are in order to understand the road that you’ll need to take. If you don’t know where you are starting from how can you know your destination?
- Who are you? Stop lying to yourself. When you begin to heal and rebuild your self-esteem you begin to revive the women or young lady that you want to become. Now with that be sure to count the cost. Do your homework on what it takes and what comes with the image or position that you are seeking.
- Who do you want to be? Know the difference of who you are right now and who you are becoming. Understanding that difference is the beginning of the foundation needed to get clarity on your journey to rebuilding and restoration. It will give you a clear vision on the steps to take in between your current image now and the one you desire to become.
- Implementation. Now that you’re going somewhere. You need to start walking, talking and acting as if you are already that woman! Start building mutually beneficial relationships. Make sure you have a strong support system. Surround yourself around positivity. Find someone who you respect and trust preferably in the area you seek to obtain and allow them to mentor you.
Wisdom nugget #1: Tell the truth about where you are.
Wisdom nugget #2: Make a decision to change.
(Don’t wish or hope – take action to change.)