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5 signs he likes you and is interested in you

“Yes, my man says he loves me, never says he loves me not” -Spinderella. I know, I know, ladies it’s pretty obvious when a guy likes you, however, if you are looking to date you could be overlooking that guy best friend, or that overly friendly male coworker in the cubicle across from you because you think he’s just being nice to you, but no he may actually like you and hoping you catch the hint. Here are a few ways to tell if a man likes you and or is interested in you.

I know, I know, ladies it’s pretty obvious when a guy likes you, however, if you are looking to date you could be overlooking that guy best friend, or that overly friendly male coworker in the cubicle across from you because you think he’s just being nice to you, but no he may actually like you and hoping you catch the hint.

I know we always talk about the toxic signs or red flags to look out for in dating, but I wanted to share some signs of how to know when a man is interested.

How to know when a man likes you

  1. He’s talkative– This guy opens up to you without you even probing him, or he volunteers information you didn’t ask for, he isn’t tight-lipped about what he does for a living or any general facts about himself, he also wants to talk about his day and what’s going on in his life with you (promotions, new business deals, etc.), you can hear their smile through the phone during phone conversations and laugh at their own jokes before you can. After all, they want to appear funny and likable because they are trying to get in good with you.
  2. He’s trying to impress you by talking about his accomplishments– This man will go on and on about what he does for a living, whether it’s his 9-5 or if he’s starting his own business. They want you to be impressed not only by who they are but what they do.
  3. He wants to get to know you and understand the woman behind the face– This guy will ask your opinion on different scenarios or world events or if you watched this movie or watched that show, most likely as a means to pick your brain. He’ll also ask questions to try and understand what makes you tick and goes beyond asking the surface questions. He’ll ask you what you like to do for fun and asks about your interests and hobbies. He’ll do little research on you and will show up for you and will support your business endeavors or career goals without you having to ask. He doesn’t mind sometimes sitting in the passenger seat so you can shine.
  4. He will look for any reason to talk to you– This guy is almost like a bug a boo; he will initiate phone calls and communications. He’ll ask about you and your day and when you talk, he’ll compliment you a lot throughout the conversations, but not just about your looks but your value.
  5. He wants to help you out and offers suggestions for your problems– This man wants you to talk about yourself so as he’s getting to know you, he’s listening for ways he can help you, he wants to appear as the superhero in your life so you can see him in a good light. He presents himself as a knight in shining armor and he gives advice and makes suggestions about any problems you have so you can give him validation/positive feedback, that’s his way of receiving praise from you. He wants to make life as easy as possible for you.
  6. Notable mentioned– He asks you out and wants to see you. No house dates are included here. If this is a new relationship, he’ll want to see you often, and if this is an ongoing relationship he’ll still want to take you out and wine and dine you and speak your love language to you.

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