Are you where you should be right now? have you grown and reached your potential? Start working on you. How about your education go back to school finish that degree you been meaning to finish? What about your credit score is it 600 and below start working on your credit? How about your physical health are you at your goal wait? Look at yourself in the mirror, do you like what you see. Are you suffering from childhood trauma? Were you abused or abandoned as a child? How about toxic relationship issues? Work on it before you start a new relationship because if you bring it to the new relationship you will abuse your mate while you are trying to heal from the trauma of the last relationship. If you think about it, you are not emotionally ready because you are still crying from that toxic sold tie. Maybe your Dad was not in your life. So, you will hold on to this man because you missed out on a relationship with your father.
Do you have a relationship with God? Because he will fill that void or emptiness. So that when the wrong person comes along you will not have any room for toxic energy. Because God has filled that space to the compactly.
Are you financially stable? Because we live in a time now where men and women should equally bring their finances to the table. Men love a woman that can take care of herself. If you depend on him to take care of you and he one day leave this world, how are you going to survive.so get your money right. Wisdom and money are your defense.