Everyone is Not Called

EVERYBODY IS NOT CALLED

The importance of having a mother and father that is equally yoked in God’s Word is pivotal. God’s order is divine. Anyone who says otherwise is a fool.  I must say that I am not looking to step out of line in God’s order. But as a single mother and soon-to-be grandmother, it is my […]

Do What’s Best For The Kid’s

Make sure you’re putting the child first and not your selfish desires. 

How to co-parent without getting your feelings involved

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I stopped counting the number of times someone has asked me this question. In this very short post I will share with you three ways to co-parent without getting your feelings involved. I don’t consider myself much of a blogger so my posts tend to be very short and to the point. With that being […]

Client Testimonial

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You because You walked with Me along this journey. You helped me immensely and encouraged me to stay the course and not to give up. He attempted to assassinate my soul in so many ways physically and emotionally and Mentally. But with your real help I didn’t fall for the Okie-Doke. During my last hearing, the woman You saw was Me.

Freedom

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Co-parenting does not mean Co-marraige… it’s best to keep communication and inner actions strictly, but cordially about the kids. Waters can get extremely muddy when we confuse the two rolls. Like this picture, you want serenity.

3 Do’s & Don’ts of Healthy Co-Parenting

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3 Do’s *Commit to making communication open, non judgemental and healthy *Try to make rules consistent at both households *Set up boundaries and stick to them 3 Don’ts *Make assumptions about what takes place at the other parent’s home * Talk bad about the other co-parent around the child *Try to control everything, you have […]

What To Do When The Grandparent Oversteps Boundaries

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Many times I will hear from clients that state how frustrated they are about their co-parent’s mom or dad overstepping  boundaries related to issues between the co-parents. I even had a client tell me one time how the paternal grandmother would call her phone and make demands that she bring her grandchild to see her. […]

Co-Parenting Mistakes To Avoid

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Here are 5 Co-Parenting Mistakes To Avoid 1) Consider your interests as more important than the best interests of the child 2) Think that it has to be your way or the highway, refusing to compromise 3) Disrespecting the other parent, regardless of possible justifiable reasons 4) Alienating the child from the other parent 5)Asking […]

The Importance of Self Care When Going Through A Custody Battle

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I want to take a moment to remind you about the importance of self care when going through a custody battle. Going through a custody battle can be very stressful and emotional. Sometimes custody cases can take MONTHS to finish and can seem to drag on for a LONG time. It is important that while […]

One Tip To Help You Feel More Confident When You Have To Represent Yourslef

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So you have to represent yourself You don’t like it, but you understand that “it is what it is” You can’t afford to hire an attorney but you still need some help This may be new for you, maybe you’ve never had to go through this before I know, it is scary, unfamiliar and overwhelming […]