Prepare for the Worst
I use this motto as a defense mechanism in dating, and it really helps. Some people may look at it to be negative but its just a way to protect yourself in love and relationships. Realistically, your average person is going to kiss many bad frogs before they find a good one. To be let […]
Change for the better
In life we as people change for the better or the worst. It’ll make life so much easier if you find out if your partner seems like more of the type that want to change for the better or worst in dating. We can’t see the future but what we can do is communicate and […]
Fantasy and the Epidemic of Loneliness – Pt1
In our loneliness, deficit, or discontent, we often imagine things as we want them to be, and not as they are. Fantasy often obscures our sense of what is real and what is not, particularly in relationships.
Real Potential
For example, sometimes us women will see something in a man that he hasn’t necessarily shown us. But, in our minds, we deeply wish he would change or we start relying on what he said instead of paying attention to what he’s doing. It’s similar to false hope, this isn’t potential. This is perpetrating, if […]
How to know if he’s right for you
Finding the right partner for a healthy relationship can be a daunting task, but it’s worth the effort. The most important thing to remember is that you should never settle for less than you deserve. It’s important to take your time, get to know someone, and make sure they’re the right fit for you. First, […]
Always choose you. You will never lose.
Walking away to LIVE is a lot better than, , staying to Die spiritually, emotionally & financially.
Boundaries equals protection!
Do not feel bad because you stayed in toxic relationships too long. No one ever taught you how to have the proper boundaries. Now it’s time for you to teach yourself.
Marriage should be one of the first topics of discussion while dating
Some may say talking about marriage while dating makes you look desperate and could scare off the person you’re dating. But the purpose of dating should be to meet your husband or wife. So, if marriage is a topic that makes them uncomfortable marriage isn’t the reason their dating you. That might be your biggest […]
Are You Disrespecting Yourself for a Relationship Future?
Today’s blog post “Are You Disrespecting Yourself for a Relationship Future?”, is based on years of seeing tears of broken hearted women and hearing them tell their stories of how frustrated, and upset they are with the dating process and the men who walked away from them, as though they never meant anything to them.
If you advertising free, for a fee, or at a reduced cost specialty for the sake of a relationship, then Queen you have just told the man that you’re with that the value you bring is not worth anything; and at that rate you want ever attract a principal man of integrity willing to give you a ring to make you his Queen.
He Is Emotionally Unstable?
Today’s blog post, “Is He Emotionally Unstable?”, was inspired by real life events, which made me think about how often we overlook emotional issues in people we date that have been there from the start of our relationship, because they had emotional issues before we ever met them that were never resolved.
~If it’s normal for the man you’re dating to have extreme and uncontrollable anger especially towards you, then you’re dating and unstable man and an unstable man can’t be trusted. So, you shouldn’t believe he loves you. ~Coach Sam
