I’m Tamika.
I, myself am a student of life! I have weathered many storms that life has presented me. 
I am very confident that my life experiences has prepared me to help others navigate through life's storms.
I’m organically gifted with mother wit. I’ve gained wisdom that has proven to moved my life to 
a place of total accountability, progress, and success! I’ve overcome divorce, displacement, and adversity!
I believe that failure is authentically a prerequisite for success. Winston Churchill once quoted… 
“Success is the ability to go from one failure to another without the loss of enthusiasm”! This statement holds true to me!
That is why I’m your coach! Your personal sounding board, advocate, and accountability 
partner on your journey to forward movement!

It is my mission and vision to build with you!
To be that reliable accountability partner to you!
I will advocate with you for your liberation from life’s challenges!

I am passionately committed to the empowerment on Life, Self Love, and Emotional Intelligence!
Many of us aren't even aware of how we are showing up in the world! 
I’m prepared to take a deep dive with you in discovering how and why we’ve gotten off track.
Let us all begin with the renewing of our hearts and minds.. organically one step at a time!
  • 40/hr
  • 5-10 Years Experience
  • Certified
  • Audio Sessions
Languages: English
Specializing in:

Emotional Intelligence


Self Love


I Became a Life Coach

I became a Life Coach because I’m purposefully driven to be a catalyst for relational wholeness and happiness!
I believe there are no right or wrongs... just life experiences. Failure is an opportunity, defeat is not!
I'm a firm believer that, "the blessings is to know.”Even bad news can be a blessing. Being aware, because God chooses for us to know!
Therefore, we have opportunities for our growth and development. We have been given a chance to unlearn, relearn, & discern a new!
That is why... I’m so passionate about helping my clients become healthy, wealthy, & wise through practical applications!
“Organically Me…
Life Coaching with authentic Compassion, Wisdom, & Encouragement for Forward Movement”

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My Thoughts


“Are You Having A Love Affair With Toxicity”?!

I wanted to use the story of Humpty Dumpty to convey a lesson that we all must learn!
In love and relationships, about failing and the lesson to glean from it. If the person you
are involved with is operating in toxicity, you are going to have to be very honest
with yourself about the choices you are making going forward.
I recognize that you want to make it work a lot of times.
There may be some trial and error with in reason. After the fall, we must begin
with the work on ourselves to become the highest version of ourselves.
The more knowledge and work you do, the more confident you will become.
You will start developing an enriched abundant mindset because you have
truly began to know your worth! You will be operating from an elevated level
and that will impact your decisions! Now going forward your new choices
would be very clear! Toxicity Is Unacceptable!!!

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“Grown Boys/Girls Are Like Fool’s Gold”

I believe that men and women don’t truly understand or know who
women and men are at their core.
A lot of us haven’t been raised, some have just grown because of many
dynamics in our communities.
You cannot give what you’ve never had or even seen modeled.
Therefore, you will not be equipped with an organic perspective on our
respective roles which is, where I believe the disconnect begins.
I believe that the root of our problem is our relationship spiritually.
Many are operating in a sea of emotional brokenness, and insecurities
that has left us fractured leading to hurt, deception, and disappointment!
Hence, your “Prince Charming” or that rare “Gem Of A Woman”
you thought you had found turned out to be “Fool’s Gold”!
A counterfeit, unauthenticated.. not organic!

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“Life Is What You Make It.. so make it Authentic”

Life consists of peaks and valleys! Some would say, ups and downs.
I say.. it’s the ebb and flow of life’s experiences!
These are opportunities for us to growth, fail, and ultimately succeed!
We wholeheartedly try to avoid failures.
I believe that failure is a prerequisite for success.
We must pay close attention to our true motives,
which 9 times out of 10 leads to our decisions.
If, when life happens.. fall back and recognize that
God is always present even in the midst of adversity!

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“The Difference Between Most People and The Wealthy Is Applied Knowledge”

I’m a passionate licensed professional!
A life coach advocate that is very ambitious about empowering
individuals on the importance of properly building a solid Financial Foundation!
My own life experiences, the lack of knowledge on properly planning have
equipped me to be instrumental in others lives.
We will not be prepared, if we don’t learn how to or start implementing protection
for many of life’s unforeseeable circumstances.
I was very fortunate to embark on this journey for myself!
I have a love for people, which is why, I wanted to assist families in
avoiding some of the pitfalls I’ve experienced!
We’ve all heard the saying.. “it’s better to be safe than sorry” but, many
of us take this awareness for granted.
It is my utmost passion and concern to be the bell ringer. An advocate to share
tools that we may all design a better tomorrow!

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“Women And Men Are The Same In Difference”

It is my belief that men and women can have an organic relationship.

When we do the work of self love to become love towards one another.

Only then, will we begin to understand, who we are in our respective masculine

and feminine roles can we begin to heal our relationships, families, and communities!

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