Do not chase them

Have you ever met a guy or girl that you were absolutely impressed with? I have, you start dating and having a great time getting to know each other. They are doing all the right things. Calling when they supposed to, texting throughout the day. They take you on plenty of dates. And I do not mean McDonalds. When the phone rings, it has a way of sounding like your bae on the other end. Wow you are thinking they the one you been waiting for all your adult life. It has been about three months, and everything is going well.

And then crickets. You start questioning yourself. Why I have not heard from them in a couple of days. So, what to do in a situation like that? NOT ONE THING! The minute you reach out to them you are chasing them. If you text “hey I was just checking on you”, you are chasing. If you call and leave a message, you are chasing. If you go and check their social media page, you are chasing. If you ask a family member about them, you are chasing. If you drive by their house, you are chasing.

The bottom-line is they GHOSTED you. So do not chase love. If they cannot see that you are the prize let them go. Something better is waiting for you on the other side of this. So, keep your dignity and do not chase.

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