Relationships, friendships, businessships, all need to be carefully examined. Some of us want to have people in our lives for a lifetime, but they might only be for a season. You dont have to be “critical” of everyone, but you just need to be aware. If it looks like a dog, and it barks like a dog ITS A DOG. The benefit of the doubt is not good enough. In order to not deal with unnecessary pain, and self inflicted pain you need to watch who you link up with in any area of life. Relationships can be sunt IN DISGUISE from the ENEMY AS WELL.