Unfortunately there isn’t an estimated time period you can put on healing. Of course it depends on what took place. We can’t compare a broken limb to a broken finger. It just doesn’t work that way. A broken heart resulting from a divorce, can’t be compared to a broken heart resulting from a teenage romance. It may feel the same but we know that’s like comparing apples to watermelons.
There isn’t a tested proven formula either. For each person the prescription or length of time will be completely different.
It’s not a matter of rushing through the healing process either. Women often will allow the process to flow and nativage through it. Men tend to skip over it and hop into another relationship all together.
Allow yourself to just be, don’t get upset with yourself for being sad, mad or sometimes blue during your healing process.
Don’t compare yourself to others who may SEEM to have gotten over their break up/divorce quicker. We never really know if someone is sincerely healthy and ready to even be dating. It’s not our business and we should FOCUS on ourselves.
It’s so important to give yourself permission to heal in your own way and time. Don’t worry about what other people say, who cares…. It’s your heart. Do what’s necessary now, so you can to be strong and willing to love AGAIN.
Once your healing process is complete, you will be so proud of yourself. You took the time to care for your heart and it will bring about a confidence that will cause you to glow.
Happy Healing 💕
