I need you to love yourself not for anyone else but for you! Never respond to an action just to save someone’s feelings. For example, do not say “Yes” because you don’t want to hurt his/her feelings. This is the time to love yourself enough and realize no one else will be effected by your choice but you. So, keep in mind your rejection will in turn protect yourself from being hurt in the future. This act of self-love will keep you happy!