Settling?…What is that?

We all have been there where we saw red flags and because either we were desperate (that is including myself)or just naive we allowed in situations that were not meant to be. We all have to learn in some form or fashion. Dating can become frustrating overtime because you sit and you ask yourself what am I doing wrong? Although it may not be you doing the wrong, you’re still allowing the wrong. Then there is this shift where you gain the knowledge and say I have to take control in what I allow even if I can’t control the other person. Ultimately, we can only control ourselves. First, start off with becoming your best self, and then setting your standards and write them down so you can manifest the traits of your dream partner. Get that knowledge ingrained in you so that you become successful in dating. This will cost you a lot of time in situations, and get you closer to what you need. ❤️