I love my Couples

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This week I had an opportunity to catch up with one of my couples I have been working with.  When I first started counseling them at the beginning of the year, things were going in a not so good direction.  There was alot of hurt between the two and the communication was very few words.  […]

Can Jealousy Be Good for Relationships?

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As jealousy conveys enduring vulnerabilities, it’s important to understand why you get jealous in the first place.

Do You Consider What’s Out of Sight?

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“Do You Consider What’s Out of Sight?” discusses why a person’s private life is highly important, matters just as much if not more than what they showcase in public, and why it’s important to recognize it sooner rather than later.

~What happens backstage in a person’s life is just if not more important than what happens onstage because it’s the backstage mindset, attitudes, and behaviors that shape the presentation and quality of a person’s onstage perspectives, lifestyle, and actions.~Coach Sam

Do You Speak Out Help or Hurt?

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“Do You Speak Out Help or Hurt?” was inspired by a disagreement that I had with a person in my community. Although disputes are sometimes unavoidable, the fact of the matter is that we can still speak to people in our community, or in our personal and professional lives with respect, so that we are using our words to speak out help and helpful solutions to resolve our differences.

~Letters of the alphabet form the most important things we use to establish relationships, communicate how we feel, and tell others what we need and want – words. And yet too often words are the demise of personal and professional affairs, when they don’t have to be.~ Coach Sam

Is Restoration Worth It?

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“Is Restoration Worth It?” is a blog post where I challenge you to think about the three P’s – positive, productive, and precious. These are three words that should come to mind when you think about your relationships. If they don’t, the question is why? And why would you want to restore them?

~Peace of mind, joy in your heart, and trust in your soul are intangible assets that you shouldn’t forfeit, throw to the wayside, and disregard for the sake of restoration with another. Restoration with that price is a price not worth paying.~ Coach Sam

Do You Read Him? (Measure YOUR Time)

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“Do You Read Him? (Measure YOUR Time)” – In this blog post, I discuss why it’s important, especially for those dating to evaluate the state of your relationship against the time you and the man you are dating have invested into the progression of your relationship.

~Time Is an Intangible Asset, Don’t Squander It, By Committing to Living in A Dead Place~ Coach Sam

CARING FOR YOUR PARENTS

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…..as family members and as the caregiver for your parent need to watch for the signs that your parent’s ability to take care of the house and of themselves living independently has come.

SEX WITH YOUR EX

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After Divorce, you have to begin rebuilding your life, avoid Sex with the EX!!! It creates confusion and complicates the process. Being intimate can even delay the process altogether. Be safe!

LOVE HER BACK TO LOVE

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It takes a strong woman to learn how to stand in love again, after having collected all the pieces of her heart from the callous hands of the one who broke it.  But it takes an even stronger man to love a woman like that back to love, by showing her the way she deserves […]

TAKE TIME

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Take time to think… It is the source of power. Take time to play… It is the secret of perpetual youth. Take time to laugh… It is the music of the soul. Take time to pray… It is the greatest power on Earth. Words written by; The wall of the Missionaries of Charity children’s home, […]