Prepare for the Worst

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I use this motto as a defense mechanism in dating, and it really helps. Some people may look at it to be negative but its just a way to protect yourself in love and relationships. Realistically, your average person is going to kiss many bad frogs before they find a good one. To be let […]

The #1 problem women have when dating

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Look for a husband to cover you, not just a man to marry

Why men have side chicks

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The bar is so low for men with dating women that we as women must get our standards back up. Everyone’s standards may look different, but at least have some and be uncompromising with having your needs met. If it doesn’t feel right, leave it alone. If it makes little sense, don’t force it to, just let it go.

The “Paige” effect-When a woman thinks marriage is going to fill the voids in their heart and make them feel complete

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When you think marriage is going to fill the void in your heart and make you complete, you are sadly mistaken. Only God can heal your heart and put you back in the right shape so you can be an effective wife in your marriage and attract a Godly husband. Remember, baby girl, heal first before entering a relationship because a man cannot be a band-aid to your low self-esteem.

As a wife your needs should be considered and met too

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Some women have the issue of being overly accommodating and overly giving to a man who doesn’t deserve that kind of effort hoping if they give him what he wants, he will then give her what she wants but it doesn’t work like that ladies and gentlemen. To prevent yourself from giving too much too soon you must not only match the man’s effort, but even before entering a relationship you must ask yourself what intangible qualities do you want to receive or need from your partner.