BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS for Embracing New Beginnings


The answers that we are seeking can be found in the pages of so many books. Remember, you are not in things alone. So many people have gone before you and me. We can use their experiences, wisdom, gains and losses to better navigate our journey. Use the information around you!

The Gift of Thriving While Single


“From time to time, God reminds me that He hasn’t forgotten about my desires, but He also won’t let me worship them more than His presence in my life – that’s the gift.”

5 Dating Tips for Those Desiring a Serious Committed Relationship/Marriage


Be the Best Version of Yourself: You become such a better dater when you are happy with yourself.  Trust me on this one!  Your confidence is higher, and you attract a different type of person compared to when you are not feeling at your best.  Be Emotionally & Physically Available:  It’s hard to date in […]

Prepare for the Worst


I use this motto as a defense mechanism in dating, and it really helps. Some people may look at it to be negative but its just a way to protect yourself in love and relationships. Realistically, your average person is going to kiss many bad frogs before they find a good one. To be let […]

Change for the better


In life we as people change for the better or the worst. It’ll make life so much easier if you find out if your partner seems like more of the type that want to change for the better or worst in dating. We can’t see the future but what we can do is communicate and […]

Fantasy and the Epidemic of Loneliness – Pt1


In our loneliness, deficit, or discontent, we often imagine things as we want them to be, and not as they are. Fantasy often obscures our sense of what is real and what is not, particularly in relationships.

Are You Disrespecting Yourself for a Relationship Future?


Today’s blog post “Are You Disrespecting Yourself for a Relationship Future?”, is based on years of seeing tears of broken hearted women and hearing them tell their stories of how frustrated, and upset they are with the dating process and the men who walked away from them, as though they never meant anything to them.

If you advertising free, for a fee, or at a reduced cost specialty for the sake of a relationship, then Queen you have just told the man that you’re with that the value you bring is not worth anything; and at that rate you want ever attract a principal man of integrity willing to give you a ring to make you his Queen.

He Is Emotionally Unstable?


Today’s blog post, “Is He Emotionally Unstable?”, was inspired by real life events, which made me think about how often we overlook emotional issues in people we date that have been there from the start of our relationship, because they had emotional issues before we ever met them that were never resolved.

~If it’s normal for the man you’re dating to have extreme and uncontrollable anger especially towards you, then you’re dating and unstable man and an unstable man can’t be trusted. So, you shouldn’t believe he loves you. ~Coach Sam

Are You a Poor Communicator?


Today’s blog post “Are You a Poor Communicator?” was inspired by an email conversation that then turned into a face to face conversation, in which to avoid arguing and continuously back and forth getting nowhere, I chose to articulate to the individual, clearly there was a miscommunication.

~If you’re too busy to give a person your undivided attention then you should avoid responding or initiated a conversation with them because the point of communicating is to be responsive to the person you’re speaking to. ~Coach Sam

Is He Talking to Other Women?


Today’s blog post Is He Talking to Other Women? was inspired by advice I was asked to give this week. And simply put the issue was how to handle men talking to other women. So as a woman I want you to know talking to or dating a man, doesn’t make him your man!

~If the man you’re talking to is talking to is talking to and entertaining other women, then the guy your dating is not committed to you, because the man that your dating – if he’s committed to you, he’s only going to be talking to you! ~ Coach Sam