Lowering Confrontation


When you bump into an issue in your relationship/ marriage its best to confront it at the right time. Some say, when is the right time. The best time is in a time of peace. A time when the tone in the room is a calm or happy one. This way the energy of the […]

Change for the better


In life we as people change for the better or the worst. It’ll make life so much easier if you find out if your partner seems like more of the type that want to change for the better or worst in dating. We can’t see the future but what we can do is communicate and […]

How to know if he’s right for you


Finding the right partner for a healthy relationship can be a daunting task, but it’s worth the effort. The most important thing to remember is that you should never settle for less than you deserve. It’s important to take your time, get to know someone, and make sure they’re the right fit for you. First, […]

3 essential ingredients to being a godly single woman


Being single isn’t a punishment to escape but a calling to enjoy 3 Essentials of being a godly single woman:  A focus on God and His Word Your Purpose Loving completely the person God created you to be Essential ingredient #1– A focus on God and His Word– It all begins and ends with Him. […]

The “Paige” effect-When a woman thinks marriage is going to fill the voids in their heart and make them feel complete


When you think marriage is going to fill the void in your heart and make you complete, you are sadly mistaken. Only God can heal your heart and put you back in the right shape so you can be an effective wife in your marriage and attract a Godly husband. Remember, baby girl, heal first before entering a relationship because a man cannot be a band-aid to your low self-esteem.

As a wife your needs should be considered and met too


Some women have the issue of being overly accommodating and overly giving to a man who doesn’t deserve that kind of effort hoping if they give him what he wants, he will then give her what she wants but it doesn’t work like that ladies and gentlemen. To prevent yourself from giving too much too soon you must not only match the man’s effort, but even before entering a relationship you must ask yourself what intangible qualities do you want to receive or need from your partner.

5 signs he likes you and is interested in you


“Yes, my man says he loves me, never says he loves me not” -Spinderella.

I know, I know, ladies it’s pretty obvious when a guy likes you, however, if you are looking to date you could be overlooking that guy best friend, or that overly friendly male coworker in the cubicle across from you because you think he’s just being nice to you, but no he may actually like you and hoping you catch the hint. Here are a few ways to tell if a man likes you and or is interested in you.

Love yourself enough.


By loving yourself, you are becoming stronger and more resilient.

Drop Mr. Right Now and Prepare for Mr. Forever


“Who is Mr. Right Now? Mr. Right Now is the guy that you have been holding on to and you know that he is not the one for you. He is inconsistent. He’s a cheater, a manipulator, a liar, a taker not a giver. He’s disrespectful, and verbally and or physically abusive. He has at least one or all of those toxic traits, and he has to go!”

All My Single Ladies!

“Ladies, I don’t know about you but I’m tired! Actually, I was tired of being sick and tired! It may surprise you that it wasn’t the guys that I was tired of. They prompted my frustration but I was tired of me. I’m good now, but I realized I was the one setting myself up for failure in relationships. I was naively hoping for a different outcome, while doing the same thing over and over again. That’s insanity, literally.”