I absorb insights from both sides…women being informed about men and men being informed about women. I think the disconnect is that the information often conflicts and many times leaves the sexes divided and at odds. Then you have men advising men on how to be a player and women being advised on how not to be played. Maybe the key is to teach both sides how to effectively communicate…how to effectively express…how to be open, honest, and transparent instead of guessing and playing mind games. I would think that those healthy methods are what can cultivate lasting relationships.