KEPT B AEB

They didn’t want to be kept

You have to ask yourself if someone is seeking companionship, why would they sabotage their relationships? It is because they do not want a relationship with the people they are dating.

Some people will use other people to upkeep their image. They do this because they are afraid of being rejected by people close to them and others. In this society, people hide what is considered unacceptable, and as a result, people get hurt in the process. They will use people as a cover-up and then push them away claiming it didn’t work out. When in reality they were not interested in the person fully. 

You have to ask yourself if someone is seeking companionship, why would they sabotage their relationships? It is because they do not want a relationship with the people they are dating. 

When someone is interested in something, they will do anything to find it and keep it. If someone loves a particular type of shoe, they will stand in line to get it and will take care of those shoes. However, if a person only buys this shoe to please others, they may not put in as much effort. They may even not take care of the shoes…because the shoe is not what they are interested in. 

If you are dating someone and they state that people keep leaving them, pay attention. Because the reality may be, that they did not desire to be kept, don’t take it personally, change your mindset and realize that it had nothing to do with you and everything to do with their attempt to fit comfortably within the society without resistance.

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