What Did You Say?

What Did you say?

Now if you’ve been alive even for a short amount of time, you already know when somebody says, what did you say –

Usually, they’re not coming from positive place or space because typically that means that somebody has said something to them and they’re not having it. And they’re letting that person know, whoever it may be – listen, I don’t know who you think you are…

But you’re not going to talk to me any kind of way. I’m just not going to have it. I’m not going to tolerate it. It’s just unacceptable, so today Queens the question on the floor is just that.

What did you say? And I’m talking about you – yourself in this instance because sometimes we’re talking to ourselves in a negative way and we’re dismissing it.

So today I want to give you three filters to take your words to determine if you should even be saying them to yourself.

Number One

Is It Loving?

That’s right! Is it loving? So are you saying things that are loving to yourself? Or are you saying things like… I’m so stupid… I’m so dumb… I never get anything right… I knew I should have done that stupidness…

That was just foolish… I always do the wrong thing… I always hook up with the wrong people… I always make poor and bad choices… If you’re saying those types of things, your saying negative things to yourself.

And just think if you had a friend talking to you like that would you want that person to continue being your friend? Or would you put that person out of your life? You probably would put that person out of your life.

Because typically we don’t like to be around people who are negative and that just train our energy.

Number Two

Is It Informative?

That’s right! It it helping you do anything? It is helping you in a beneficial way? It is helping you manage your schedule?  Is it helping you be a better mom?  Is it helping you to be better friend? Is it helping you be a better employee? Is it helping you do anything really? Is it value added? That’s the question here?

Because if it’s not – if it’s not helping you be more productive, positive, make wiser, better decisions to help you be a better a stronger person or more confident person or whatever the case may be.

If it’s providing you no value, then it’s wasteful and you shouldn’t be saying it to yourself.

Lastly, Is It King Approved?

Yes, the king will correct us and he does correct us, especially when we get out of pocket. He’ll let us know real quick, as quick as kingdom-minded women…

Hey, listen daughter, right here – that thing right there, get it together! But even when he corrects it He does it from a place of love. So, I want you to ask yourself are the words that I’m saying to myself – are they words that the King would be saying to me.

Because if they’re not, then you definitely should not be saying them to yourself.

~We’ve all heard and many of us were taught words can never hurt us, but the truth is words built our world and words power our thoughts; and our thoughts up in the foundation of our beliefs and values, which determines how we live our life.~ Coach Sam

~EXALTED ROYALTY~ A C. E. SAM COMPANY

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