Now sometimes we go through things in life and we don’t understand the why and sometimes not understanding that why can leave us in a state of mind to where we’re depressed frustrated, or even angry. So today I want to talk about three things I believe that life is always coming to teach us.
To Grow
Number one to grow now we all know that growth at certain times is painful so just think about when you’re doing a work out, when you trying to build muscle mass – that workout may not feel good but at the end of the day if you stick with it long enough you can see the result of your goal paying off. The same thing goes with people and our interactions with them.
Sometimes we may not have patience and we may end up in situations with people who try us, who push our buttons, who make us want to set it off and they don’t even know they one statement away from getting the business. Because they have just said something or they have just did something that really and truly rubbed us the wrong way and we not going to have it too much longer.
So sometimes life can be trying to teach you to develop the skills that you may not have or that you may need to strengthen and build for different reasons. So I believe that’s the first thing that life is trying to teach it to always be willing and able to grow because if we’re not willing able to grow then that means we feel that there’s nothing else that we need to learn. And we should always remain in the posture of a student that way we’re always open and willing.
To Embrace Change
Number two embrace change, listen I know change is tough sometimes.  You know in my neighborhood they build two new houses and they’re side by side. So, I know that they’re going to be people coming soon. Now these people are going to be home owners because those houses are for sale. Whether they’re going to be good homeowners or bad homeowners I don’t know. I have no idea what type of people are coming, but I do know that people will be coming soon.
So, there’s going to be a change in my home environment. So, I have to be in the state of mind to where I can be willing to accept change is coming. Now I may not interact with those people or I may choose to become friendly with those people it really just depends on the type of people that they are.
However, in our lives when we are faced with change the ability to embrace change or to choose not to embrace change it is our state of mind and how we perceive that change is why we sometimes can’t embrace it. If we are always looking at the negatives of a situation then is hard to accept change. So, number two embrace change. Because guess what change – it is a constant and if you do not learn to embrace change, you’re going to have a tough time in life. As things are always changing and sometimes in life is full of swift transitions. So, you have to be able to have mindset that allows you to be able to pivot and make the shift so you can do and have what’s best for you and do what’s in your best interest.
To Let It Go
Mentally emotionally physically
And the third thing I believe life is trying to teach us is to let it go. Because guess what sometimes we do not want to let things go – this includes relationships and friendships. We just don’t want to let it go sometimes and it’s like there’s nothing else left. It’s nothing else there and we’re just holding on for dear life. We do not want to let it go. And it’s like listen I’m trying to teach you this lesson – that this relationship is not for you -that it has run its course and you holding on to it.
You said you wanted a kingdom minded man. I have shown you that this man here he is not Kingdom Minded. Let him go! Sometimes its friendships. Friends have betrayed us over and over and over again and we accept them back into our lives. They’re just in and out like a swinging door – just coming in and out of our life betraying us. And we just invite them and let them right back in. And life is like listen I’m trying to show you that this person has shown you through their actions that they’re not friend material. Let them go!
Sometimes in instances we may have lost someone that we truly care about and because we care so deeply about that person we just cannot move on. Yes, it’s okay to freeze we’re all going to breathe when we lose somebody that we truly and really care about but if we never move on from their passing will never see the beauty in life after their passing.
And certainly, there’s a reason and a purpose that we’re still here even though they have gone on and if we don’t shift from that mindset to see that even though we’re sad about them not being here – that we still have purpose – that we still have things that we need to do and should be doing to live our best life we’ll stay stuck and it won’t be able to let it go.
~Life is always teaching us something, but it’s our state of mind that affects our perspective and it’s our willingness to learn the lessons that affects our knowledge and it’s our decisions to implement our knowledge that determines if we live life transformed from the teaching’s life has taught.~ Coach Sam
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