Newly single and struggling? Did you come out a bad relationship and want to make sure you are ready for the next one? One was to tell if you are ready to date again is to ask yourself a question: Do you want a new relationship because you feel lost and worthless without being in one? If the answer is yes, you are not ready my dear friend. You have not healed from your prior relationship if you cannot be comfortable alone. You must get to a point where you feel whole and happy with who you are all by yourself. You have to define YOU. No one else. When you can honestly say to yourself that you can grasp this concept. Then, you are ready.