Tony
Helping people is my passion!
About Tony
With over 40 years of coaching and parenting experience, I believe it is both my calling and my responsibility to share the wisdom God has given me and the lessons I’ve learned through life. Relationships are at the heart of how we live, grow, and thrive. Whether it’s our relationship with God—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—or our connections in marriage, family, friendships, and the workplace, healthy relationships matter. We were not created to walk through life alone. My approach to coaching combines Christian principles, practical guidance, and the perspective that comes from decades of experience. My goal is to help you recognize unhealthy patterns, make wiser decisions, and build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. I am the author of four books, including *Unequally Yoked! Why My Relationships Keep Failing* and *8 Mistakes Women Make in Relationships: A Woman’s Guide to Getting It Right*. Through my writing and coaching, I help people understand the importance of alignment in their values, faith, and expectations. I earned my life coaching certification through the Professional Christian Coaching and Counseling Academy and co-wrote *Life Coaching A–Z* for the Tony Gaskins Life Coaching Certification Program. Whether you’re navigating relationship challenges, growing as a parent, or seeking direction for your next chapter, I’m here to listen, share wisdom, and help you move forward with faith, clarity, and purpose.
Why I coach
I believe coaching is my calling. It’s more than what I do—it’s a meaningful way for me to serve others through the gifts God has given me. Coaching starts with where you are today and helps you move toward where you want to be. Together, we identify what’s holding you back, clarify your goals, and work toward practical steps you can take with confidence and purpose. Proverbs 18:16 reminds us that our gifts make room for us. I believe my gift is helping people gain understanding, recognize patterns, and apply wisdom to the decisions and relationships that shape their lives. Romans 10:14–15 speaks to the importance of hearing the message and having someone to share it. That principle is central to my calling: teaching, encouraging, and helping others understand lessons they may never have been taught. Jeremiah 17:9 reminds us that the heart can be deceptive. Our feelings deserve attention, but they also need to be examined with wisdom, honesty, and faith. My goal is to help you look beneath the surface, understand what’s influencing your choices, and move forward with greater clarity.